MI Rewind: How to Succeed through Mentorship and Adversity w/ Lewis Howes
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在《千禧年投资播客》的一期重播节目中，主持人罗伯特·伦纳德采访了路易斯·豪斯，这位《纽约时报》畅销书作家、企业家和知名播客主持人，讨论了影响财务成功的更广泛的人生经验。伦纳德介绍了豪斯，强调了他令人印象深刻的背景，并指出本期节目的重点是指导、克服逆境、个人发展和心态。
豪斯回顾了他的个人历程，始于他作为一名职业橄榄球运动员时遭遇的职业生涯终结性伤病。这次意想不到的挫折让他前路茫茫，在姐姐家沙发上康复期间，他陷入了抑郁。一个关键的顿悟改变了他的态度：他需要把“生活当成一项运动”。他运用体育生涯中学到的经验，积极寻找导师和教练，设定明确的目标，并持之以恒地为之努力，一路从失败中学习。
他解释说，体育教会了他重要的自我认知能力，尤其是在应对失败方面。最初，他的竞争驱动力导致他在商业失败时过度自责，但他学会了适应并建设性地应对。豪斯将他的“冠军心态”归因于永不放弃的成功欲望，这种欲望源于他童年时期的重大逆境，包括性虐待、兄弟入狱、校园欺凌以及自卑感。这些经历激发了他强烈的自我证明的渴望，并选择“挺身而出”而非被打败。
豪斯坦诚地表示，耐心对他来说仍然是一个持续的挑战。他建议通过有意识的练习和设定结构来培养耐心，例如在每天的第一个小时和最后一个小时避免使用手机，设定特定的时间来查看通讯信息，并融入冥想或散步。他认为，结构，看似矛盾，实则能带来自由与平静。情商和自我意识也至关重要，它们能让人从条件反射般的行为中抽离出来，并治愈过去的心理创伤。
豪斯建议的核心部分围绕着基本的健康习惯：戒除糖、酒精和香烟；确保至少八小时睡眠；每周进行五次高强度体育锻炼。他充满热情地指出，这些习惯能提升思维清晰度、耐心和愉悦感，并带来更好的决策，从而直接影响事业和生活的成功。他强调，“失衡的生活”必然导致“失衡的事业”。尽管他偶尔为了间歇性禁食会饮用防弹咖啡，但他警告不要依赖咖啡因来获取能量，因为这往往表明饮食或睡眠存在更深层次的问题。
指导被强调为“成功的必要条件”。豪斯将导师视为重要的指南针，能节省时间、金钱并提供道德指引。他建议听众通过展现热情、通过持续努力工作建立信誉，以及带着尊重和充分研究的、具体的问题去接触导师来吸引他们。他还倡导通过消费受尊敬人物的播客和书籍等内容进行“间接指导”。除了导师，他还强调建立一个支持性的“胜利团队”，包括一个负责任的朋友或首席运营官、一个支持性的亲密伴侣、拥有健康生活方式的朋友，以及有财务智慧的人，这印证了“你就是你花费时间最多的五个人的平均值”这一原则。
关于是专注于“一件事”还是“多件事”的争论，豪斯认为关键在于自我意识。他从自己作为十项全能运动员的背景出发，认同在多个领域精通，而非只专攻一个。目前，他正优先优化自己的播客，确保其他项目都能支持这一核心使命。他对成功人生的定义是：在帮助他人成长、转变并实现梦想的过程中找到满足感。
最后，如果豪斯能给年轻时的自己一些建议，他会强烈推荐学习西班牙语以扩大影响力，彻底戒除饮食中的糖（将其比作“老鼠药”），并掌握视频叙事艺术以获得更广泛的传播。他还告诫人们不要将普遍存在的“拼命工作、不睡觉”的心态作为一种长期生活方式，建议这应该是一个战略性的、暂时的阶段，而非一种常态。听众可以在他的“伟大之路”播客和网站lewishowes.com上找到更多路易斯·豪斯的作品。
In a re-shared episode of the Millennial Investing Podcast, host Robert Leonard interviews Lewis Howes, a New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, and popular podcast host, to discuss broader life lessons that impact financial success. Leonard introduces Howes, highlighting his impressive background and the episode's focus on mentorship, overcoming adversity, personal development, and mindset.
Howes recounts his personal journey, which began with a career-ending injury as a professional football player. This unexpected setback left him without a clear path, leading to a period of depression while recovering on his sister's couch. A pivotal realization transformed his outlook: he needed to make "life a sport." Applying lessons from his athletic career, he actively sought out mentors and coaches, set clear goals, and consistently worked towards them, learning from failures along the way.
He explains that sports taught him crucial self-awareness, especially in handling loss. Initially, his competitive drive led to self-criticism in business failures, but he learned to adapt and respond constructively. Howes attributes his "champion's mindset" to an unwavering desire to succeed, born from significant childhood adversities, including sexual abuse, his brother's incarceration, bullying, and feeling inadequate. These experiences fueled a profound hunger to prove himself and choose to "step up" rather than be defeated.
Howes openly shares that patience remains an ongoing challenge for him. He advises cultivating patience through deliberate practices and structure, such as avoiding phone use for the first and last hour of the day, setting specific times for checking communications, and incorporating meditation or walks. He posits that structure, paradoxically, provides freedom and peace. Emotional intelligence and self-awareness are also critical, enabling one to step back from reactive behaviors and heal from past emotional wounds.
A core part of Howes' advice centers on fundamental health habits: abstaining from sugar, alcohol, and cigarettes; ensuring at least eight hours of sleep; and engaging in high-intensity physical workouts five times a week. He passionately argues that these practices enhance clarity, patience, joy, and lead to better decision-making, directly impacting success in business and life. He emphasizes that a "life out of whack" inevitably leads to a "business out of whack." While he occasionally consumes Bulletproof coffee for intermittent fasting, he cautions against relying on caffeine for energy, suggesting it often indicates deeper issues with diet or sleep.
Mentorship is highlighted as a "requirement for success." Howes views mentors as essential compasses that save time, money, and provide moral guidance. He advises listeners to attract mentors by demonstrating passion, credibility through consistent hard work, and approaching them with respect and well-researched, specific questions. He also champions "indirect mentorship" through consuming content like podcasts and books from admired figures. Beyond mentors, he stresses building a supportive "winning team" comprising an accountable friend or COO, a supportive intimate partner, friends who embody healthy lifestyles, and financially intelligent individuals, reinforcing the principle that "you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."
On the debate between focusing on "one thing" versus "many," Howes believes in self-awareness. Drawing from his background as a decathlete, he identifies with being proficient in multiple areas rather than specializing in one. Currently, he's prioritizing the optimization of his podcast, ensuring other projects support this central mission. His definition of a successful life is finding fulfillment in helping others grow, transform, and achieve their dreams.
Finally, if he could offer advice to his millennial self, Howes would strongly recommend learning Spanish to increase impact, completely eliminating sugar from his diet (likening it to "rat poison"), and mastering the art of video storytelling for broad reach. He also cautions against the prevalent "hustle and no sleep" mentality as a long-term lifestyle, suggesting it should be a strategic, temporary season rather than a constant state. Listeners can find more of Lewis Howes' work on his "School of Greatness" podcast and at lewishowes.com.
摘要
On today’s show, Robert Leonard talks with Lewis Howes about mentorship, adversity, personal development, and how having the right mindset leads to success in life, business, and investing. Lewis is a former professional athlete, New York Times bestselling author, successful entrepreneur, and a popular podcast host. He has been featured on Ellen, Good Morning America, Time magazine, Forbes, Entrepreneur, ESPN, Inc., Men’s Health, and many more!
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN
00:00 - Intro
07:10 - How to overcome adversity and use it as fuel to succeed.
12:23 - Why your personal development impacts your investing and business success.
23:24 - Why you need a mentor.
23:24 - How a mentor can be virtual today.
33:55 - How to measure your success in life, outside of just money.
And much, much more!
*Disclaimer: Slight timestamp discrepancies may occur due to podcast platform differences.
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